A week ago in my post ‘what comes next…‘, I wrote the following –
The appointment with Dr. W. was to discuss some issues with pain I am experiencing in my lower back. I had this pain back prior to surgery and thought it was associated with all the other pain I was experiencing immediately prior to surgery. The pain is constant and is at its worse in the middle of the night to the point, I am unable to move or get out of bed. We do not believe the pain is associated to the surgery and could be caused from arthritis, or some other issue. I hope to resolve this pain soon.
In today’s post, I write the following –
Another week completed and another weekend is upon us.
This past week I had no doctor appointments or other medical related activities. The weather here in Pensacola was perfect this week and looks to be the same this coming weekend.
The recovery after surgery continues with my daily walks and other activities.
Not only am I recovering physically but also psychologically with regards to the new me. Remember in recent posts ‘I struggle with the new me‘ and ‘Freakshows’, I wrote about my struggles with having a urostomy bag on the outside of my body. As the weeks pass I am learning to cope and accept this new reality. The initial uncertainty and apprehension are replaced with confidence and comfortableness.
The new confidence with the new me is allowing me to get out a little more. Past weeks had me hesitant in going anywhere I did not have to go because of my fear of ‘leakage’ from what is now an extension of my body – my urostomy bag. With different manufacture products tested by me; there were some trials and errors that took place and incidents that were frustrating and embarrassing. Since surgery, a learning process has taken place for both Gary and myself with regards to the supplies needed and process of maintaining and replacing this new extension – my urostomy bag.
Beside my daily walks this past week, I did attempt to go to the gym for an extremely easy light workout; nothing strenuous at all. Going to the gym gets me out into a different environment, which I need after weeks of being cooped up in the RV. This also provides me with an opportunity to build my confidence level with regards to the new me.
The lower back pain I experience in the middle of the night has subsided some, but still persists in waking me in the middle of the night. This nightly waking is then followed with me needing a change of position; therefore I sleep the rest of the night on a recliner.
In a couple of weeks I have follow-up appointments with my Urologist and Oncologist. I mentioned in my post ‘what comes next…‘ the possibility of a clinical trial medication for Stage 4 Bladder Cancer and also the possibility of a second Oncologist opinion concerning my further treatment.
Great news! Enjoy your weekend. 🙂
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Thank you Amanda, you have a great weekend! 🙂
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Have an awesome weekend🌞
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You too Tink, thank you! 🙂
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Looking good and sounding good.
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Thank you Bernadette, have a great weekend. 🙂
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So pleased you’re getting out and about and gaining in confidence – envy you your sunshine too! However, storm Doris has abated, just chilly and damp now.
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Thank you Chris. We have had a mild winter here, and the temps are wonderful right now with plenty of sunshine. Hoping your weather becomes better for you soon. 🙂
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Good to see you doing well, Terry
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Thank you Derrick. 🙂
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Sounds like your getting better in all ways needed….bummer about the pain, hope its just healing going on inside of you, I am happy that you are getting out and starting to feel comfortable with you…..it gets easier, I promise….your inspiration getting out to the gym….I need to get my but back to one….keep it up my friend…..xxxkat
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It is becoming easier with each day – though I will have a day where I just don’t feel well. But overall the recovery is going well. Thanks kat!
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Make the most of the weather and have a great weekend
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Thank you I will, I am on my way out now to soak in a little sun. Have a great weekend. 🙂
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Wonderful news, Terry! Have a happy weekend my friend! 😄
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Thank you Sarah, I appreciate you stopping by today. Happy weekend to you as well. 🙂
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So glad to hear about your new confidence 🙂 Things are improving my friend, and I could not be happier for you. Pity about that pain still, and you having to sleep half the night in the recliner…hopefully that part sorts itself out soon, and you manage a good solid nights sleep in bed ! Enjoy the weekend. Have a good one. 🙂 x
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Thank you Lynne, I am glad I am finally having some new confidence, and with the recovery taking place – I am sure this will continue. Enjoy your weekend as well. 🙂
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Thank you 🙂
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Great seeing you smiling and feeling more optimistic. I hope you get the nagging back pain sorted out.
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Thank you Kerry, the back pain is getting better – I am able to sleep some on my side now, which is helping. Hope you are feeling well and have a great weekend. 🙂
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That’s really good news, Terry. Happy Sunday!
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So glad you are feeling better and recovering confidence. Have a wonderful weekend.
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Thank you Su, better each day – you have a wonderful weekend as well. 🙂
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You look great!
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Thank you Lynn! 🙂
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Going to the gym – that’s great! Let’s hope doctors get to the bottom of the reasons for your lower back pain, and then you’ll really be on the mend. Have a great weekend!
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Thank you Dolly, yes the gym was good – just a very light workout on my arms. I am feeling better with each passing day – you have a great weekend as well. 🙂
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That’s great to hear – many blessings to you and Gary!
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That is so good that your confidence is rebuilding right along with the new you. Stay positive. Praying your pain is resolved soon.
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Thank you very much – I appreciate the prayers! Happy day to you. 🙂
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I commend you for going to the gym! All the best! Have a fantastic weekend !
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Thank you Roxie, small steps, but I am moving forward. Thanks for stopping by today, have a great weekend. 🙂
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so great to hear……. so great to see! ❤ xo
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Thank you Jodi. 🙂
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Excellent report, and good to see your confidence building and returning. Get out this beautiful weekend. Best to you!
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Thank you Jennie, I will! I appreciate you – have a great weekend. 🙂
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Thanks, Terry. A good weekend to you, too! 🙂
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There’s that lovely smile we all know and love! I hope you have an awesome weekend Terry (and Gary)! xo
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Thanks Kathryn, you have a great weekend as well. 🙂
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Great to know the recovery is moving along and your confidence is returning. Guess the virtual hugs and spoons have helped!
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Yes, absolutely the virtual hugs and spoons are helping – send a few more, will you? 🙂
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Always sending more.
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Sounding happy and confident!! Your simply amazing with all you have gone through, a true inspiration to others. Have a wonderful evening 🙂
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Thank you Sandra for your kind words. Have a great day. 🙂
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Your welcome! 🙂
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Your welcome! Have a wonderful Saturday! 🙂
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Keep your spirits up. You sound amazing especially with what are you having to endure.
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Thank you Engenia for your support and encouragement. Have a great weekend my friend. 🙂
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Your new confidence gladdens my heart …. really it does – keep your face the sunshine …. I’m sending you the warm lining of my heart ❤️
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Thank you Osyth, I am feeling new confidence with each passing day. 🙂
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So proud of you! On to building up the new you 🤗 Say ‘Hi’ to Gary from me!
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Thank you very much, and yes, I will certainly say ‘Hi’ to Gary. Happy day my friend. 🙂
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Terry, I am just catching myself up with your goings on. I have been a little wrapped up in my own health issues, unfortunately. But you have been on my mind. I feel for you getting used to the urostomy bag. I went through it with my Dad and my sister now has one as well from a different type of cancer that ended up affecting the bladder. I am so glad you are coming to terms with it. I smile at the term “the new me.” That is such a good attitude. It is what you make it and you seem to be taking it the right way, if by one step at a time.
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Thanks Lydia, for the catching-up, and I am sorry to learn you are having some health issues. I know there are many others who have a urostomy bag and there is a time for adjustment. I appreciate you stopping by and commenting. 🙂
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I am just catching up after being away for a bit. I am sending you a hug through the airwaves. 😊
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Thank you very much Brigid, I appreciate you catching up and wish you a great weekend. 🙂
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