In my post ‘quality of life…. (or lack of it)‘, I wrote the following –
With the recent move to Tampa, Florida and change in healthcare, comes more doctor visits, appointments and more medications.
The transition to this area is a struggle with regards to finding new doctors and scheduling the appointments.
In today’s post, I write the following –

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One of the previous mentioned appointments was with a new dentist. I was fortunate to see a new dentist within the first week because once my chemotherapy begins I should not be having any dental work. There is always the possibility of an infection and during chemotherapy my white blood count is low and therefore more prone to infections. So, my first visit with the new dentist was an examination that included the usual x-rays that resulted in me having a cavity. I very seldom have cavities and was surprised to learn I had one.
Okay, two days later and another dentist appointment to take care of the cavity. Before I write about this appointment, let’s go back about 14 hours –
It is the night before and I am experiencing a great deal of back pain. I take pain pills and go to bed extremely early – around 7:00 PM. I am unable to rest or sleep, so around 11:00 PM I am taking additional pills for pain and sleep. I do finally receive some sleep, but the next morning, I am tired.
Early morning Gary and I depart for the dental appointment and I am excited about using a new smartphone app that I can use for street parking near the dentist office.

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I set the time and pay for two hours the maximum amount allowed. Gary is also having a dental appointment the same time so, two hours should be enough time. The dentist is running behind and I become a little nervous about the time, but I know I can extend it from my smartphone. It is the first time I have used it, so I am a little nervous that maybe it will not work and I will receive a ticket.
Now I am sitting in a chair and receive my injection to numb my mouth. Oh, did I mention I do not like to go to dentists? I have Cancer and deal with appointments, procedures, IVs and blood tests – but going to the dentist makes me nervous.
Now I am at another dentist appointment to take care of the cavity – it is time – but the mouth does not feel numb. The dentist decides to give me another shot.

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Within minutes, half my throat goes numb as does part of my vocal cords. I am having trouble swallowing and breathing. I request the staff to get Gary in the room – I need him. The dentist thinks I may be having an allergic reaction to the lidocaine. I am not allergic to anything – I receive an Epipen injection.
911 is called just in case there is an allergic reaction – but they are not needed.
I am having a panic attack as the throat is swollen, I am unable to swallow and breath and having difficulty speaking – I am also crying.
After some time to relax, I go through with getting the cavity fix because chemotherapy starts in 2 days.
I am glad I do not have to see the dentist again for another 6 months.
Oh nooooo I have dentist on Monday and I too have reaction to anaesthetic, my whole body shakes uncontrollably like I am havng an epilectic seizure. I also have teeth that refuse to go numb and had a whole procedure done last year without pain relief. I share your nervousness, but glad you got through it. I at least have the reassurance of a lovely Portuguese dentist who is so patient and understanding. As a joke, after several torturous appointments where he seemed to use the full gamut of instruments, I bought him a dvd of Marathon Man with Dustin Hoffman and Laurence Olivier about the dentist who uses his ‘skills’ for actual torture! He thought that was hilarious 😄
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Good luck with your visit Chris, I never have experienced this before in prior dentist visits – this was a first for me. This experience will make even more difficult for me to visit a dentist in the future. 🙂
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I’m sorry you had such an awful experience. Two words – nitrous oxide. Otherwise known as panic-be-gone. I won’t even walk into the dentist’s office without it.
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Good advise Paula, I will need that in the future, now I am even more nervous about future dental visits. Happy Thursday!
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Oh, this is awful! I’m glad it wasn’t an allergic reaction, but a panic attack is not much of an improvement (and it might not be one at all)! Had you ever had one before?
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I have never had a panic attach at the dentist. I have always been nervous about dental visits – I just do not like the fingers and instruments in my mouth and I find it difficult to breath. I feel almost like I am being suffocated.
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I used to get sick when they used the sucking tool on me. It never got to the point where I had a panic attack (thankfully), but it wasn’t pleasant for anyone involved. Thankfully, that hasn’t happened in a while, but I have some inkling of the dislike of the whole thing.
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Oh how SCARY! I’d be panicking and crying too, what a horrible feeling to struggle to breathe. I’m glad it all turned out OK in the end, and thank goodness no more dentists for awhile. I’m sorry you had to go through that experience. xoxo
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That was the first time I have ever experienced that. I usually am very nervous at dental visits, but to actually react that way – that was a first. Thanks Kathryn, and I am glad I do not have to go back for awhile. 🙂
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Aww Terry I’m so sorry to hear about the panic attack and so thankful it wasn’t an allergic reaction. I would be so scared too – I’ve had some panic attacks in the past and I could understand all the steps you described. I’m so glad you’re better. Many hugs xx
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Roberta, I have had a panic attach before in my own home many years ago, but never in public. I am much better and glad I went ahead and had the work done at that time – Gary had to stay in the room with me – he is my security. Thanks for the hugs, hope you are having a great week. 🙂
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Much love to you and Gary. Thinking of you both – you’re so lucky and blessed to have each other xx
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oh Terry! that is all you needed!!! NOT! So sorry for that awful experience. Glad Gary was there for you and glad you are done for 6 months! Hugs! I am not a fan of the dentist either!
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I went ahead and had the work done while Gary was in the room with me. I should be find waiting my 6 months, not that I am looking forward to it. Thanks Jodi. 🙂
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OH MY! You poor dear! That is no fun Terry! xoxoxo
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It certainly was not, and I am glad it is over. Thanks Lynn! 🙂
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I am sure!
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I’m not a dentist fan I have to say, but somehow managed 5 hour knee surgery, go figure.
When I was younger our dentist had a soft toy called ‘Humpty Dumpty’ to soothe us. I was given it once but held on a little too tight and managed to pull it’s arms off. My Mum was less than impressed, from what I can remember it was sent home with me to get sewn up and my poor Mum couldn’t sew! Lol
Good luck for starting chemo, all the Eejits in Ireland are rooting for you! 🙂
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I can deal with Cancer and Chemo, but not the dentist. I always become nervous – I just do not like the fingers and instruments in my mouth – it makes me feel like I am suffocating. I appreciate the rooting – hope all is well with you. 🙂
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Oh my word ! What a horrific experience !!! I was scared for you, just reading your story…. I hope this experience does not play on your mind next time you need to go to the dentist. Hope you are feeling loads better today my friend. Hugs 🙂 x
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Well, most likely next time I go, it most likely will play on my mind and will make me more nervous. Maybe next visit I will take something to help relax me. I am better today and doing well – hope you are too Lynne. 🙂
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All good my side, thank you 🙂
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I hate going to the dentist….
I’m glad the cavity is filled, you are done with the dentist and you don’t have to think about it for a long time! Did I mention, I hate dentists too. 🙂
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LOL, yes – you did mention you hate dentists! I laugh, because trust me I feel the same way! Thanks Alexis for reading and commenting – hope everything is going well for you. 🙂
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😁
Its going pretty good this week!
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This seems to be the week for dentist ‘horror’ stories doesn’t it? My visit, on Monday, wasn’t too bad as such things go (aside from the pain in my pocketbook), but there’s a whole summer of procedures coming up (I’m getting the holes in my mouth filled in finally) and I’m sure I’ll be writing about those and some will be, like yours, full of pain and terror. I have had that phenomenon you described, of my tongue feeling like it was swelling so much that I felt I was choking..and I’ve come to believe that the dentist must shoot the Novocaine in the wrong place or directly into a vein or something to cause the effect. I couldn’t swallow properly for about four hours after it happened, and I kept thinking I was going to throw up. It’s awful and I’m sorry that you had to endure it. 😦
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Yes, I remember reading your recent post about your visit. Gary is having to have a lot of work done over the next several weeks, so he is having to endure much more than me – but the dentist does not bother him as it does me. All is better now, at least for 6 months. 🙂
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Well good Lord, child. That’s all you need, right? I could go to sleep in the dentist chair if I didn’t have to hold my mouth open…and Novocaine and Lidocaine are hit and miss with me. Most of the time, neither of them work…or if they do, they only last for a few minutes. I have a high tolerance for pain so even when I feel something, it really doesn’t bother me.
Even when I have gotten stitches, it has been without any anesthetic. I can handle that…..but I can’t handle an airplane ride. LOLOL
Maybe the next time, they could give you a Valium or something before they start. 🙂
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Oh, I cannot handle the pain in my mouth – just the noise of the instruments make me nervous. Yes, next time I think a Valium is needed. For me airplane ride – no problem, LOL, maybe you need a Valium for the airplane and I need it for the dentist. 🙂
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That’s a good idea! 😘
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Oh no. What a horrible thing to happen. I’m so glad you’re ok now and it wasn’t an allergic reaction.
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First time Su, I have never experienced that before and hope not again. Hope you are having a great week, thanks for stopping by. 🙂
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I hope you never have to experience it again either. Take care.
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Oh bummer. At least everyone jumped into action to make sure you were okay.
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Yes, everyone did – and all is well today. Thanks Peggy! 🙂
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What a terrifying experience! It’s like you didn’t have enough on your plate, so you had to go through this! I am so sorry!
But this is behind you now, so good luck with your chemo, and keep smiling!
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Yes, it is behind me now and I am glad I do not have to go back for another 6 months. I am smiling – thank Dolly. 🙂
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Are you smiling with new and improved teeth?
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Yes, I am! 🙂
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That’s the spirit!
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Terry, your anxiety is very understandable. I am sorry for all that you have gone on right now! I am glad the dentist issue is over. I wish you peace and freedom from the ongoing pain. Hugs!!!
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I am glad the dentist is over for now also, it was not an experience I want to go through again. I have many appointments in the next several weeks and hope to get the pain under control. Thank you Blue for catching-up on reading my posts, I appreciate you very much. 🙂
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On top of everything else…….
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Yes, on top of everything else – but is it over with now. Thanks Derrick! 🙂
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OMG! What a frightening experience you had at the dentist! Maybe some of that medication got down into your throat and not into the gum area because of the way it was administered or it affected a different nerve. I would have panicked too….I do not like going to the dentist! On top of that, your parking app…the dentist running late…you had a miserable experience because you didn’t know if the numbing shot experience was because of other issues….we are not doctors, so we become worried very easily. Your cavity is now taken care of and I hope the rest of your day is going much better. 🙂
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Yes, it was a certainly an experience I soon will not forget and though I do not have to go to the dentist for another 6 months – I am not looking forward to it. 🙂
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I never did either! We girls as growing up had the best dentist ever…never felt the needle going in for the numbing shots and no dentist has ever been able to duplicate that experience! He simply had a special way with it! Hopefully in 6 months…all will be well and no work will need to be done. Have a wonderful day 🙂
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Oh my…..what a nightmare….however really glad you were able to get the filling…but my oh my what an experience…..BTW I hate dentist too…xxkat
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Yes, it was something I do not want to experience again. Thank goodness I will wait for 6 months before I go back. Thanks kat! 🙂
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What a horrible thing to happen, you poor thing. Thank goodness Gary was there! In your arsenal of medications do you have any clonazepam or Ativan? I know that you don’t like taking meds but possible taking a very low dose of one before your next appt. might be an idea? You’re obviously stressed to hilt currently and it would only be for particularly tricky situations like the dentist. Just a thought.
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Yes, next time I will take something before the appointment – I do not need another one of these types. Thanks Amanda, happy weekend! 🙂
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oops, it should say..”stressed to the hilt”…
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Got ya! 🙂
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I am sorry, Terry, but I couldn’t help but laugh! Poor you! I love going to the dentist (better than a massage) and my mum had cavities filled with no anesthetic. That said, I am terrified of moths… Glad to hear that it all ended well. Next time, call me and I will bring some of my ‘stash’ (and maybe a cocktail or two). 🍹
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Well, next time I will be taking something to calm my nerves, I am not going to experience that type of appointment again. And yes, a cocktail or two will certainly help! Thanks dear, happy Sunday! 🙂
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Happy Sunday to you!
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Panic attacks are dreadful. More physical than physical reactions. I would wager that all the uncertainty reached breaking point when you were in a situation that always makes you nervous (what IS it about dentists – I’m the same and there is no tangible reason for it) and boiled over. I’m glad they fixed the cavity and that you don’t have to return for several months.
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I am also glad the cavity was fixed as I am not going back anytime soon since I have started chemotherapy again. And yes, I think I did reach my breaking point, these past weeks have been very stressful with so many things taking place. And in the mean time, my body feels horrible, truly horrible. Thank you Osyth for stopping by to catch-up on reading. I hope all is well with you. 🙂
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Normal service will be resumed next week. I’m all good but it’s been difficult to concentrate on bloggi g recently 😐
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Take a break from blogging if you need it. All is good here. 🙂
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I pretty much have but it works to get back to the work next week 😊
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Oh no! How awful, Terry! But I´m glad it wasn’t an allergic reaction. I have many dentist-horror stories in store but I won´t share them now with you 😉 First you need time to get over this dreadful experience, it will take a while. I´m also glad Gary was right there to help you through! No one really seems to like going to the dentist but without them we wouldn’t be happy either…
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I am glad it is over – that is the first time I have experienced a panic attack there. Next time I go, I will certainly take something to help calm my nerves. Thanks as always for catching-up on reading. You are very kind Sarah.
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That’s a very good idea! But I hope you won’t need to go there soon. Have a happy, lovely day, dear Terry! 😄
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