Last month, in my post ‘Phone Calls‘, I wrote the following –
(note: since the very beginning of my journey with my cancer, all procedures and tests and treatments; all resulted in bad news. I have not once received good news in the past 1 ½ years. NOT ONCE)

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So, the news of my cancer spreading and growing was received on a Friday; and Saturday Gary made a couple of calls.
What was discussed in these phone calls?
Gary was honest and sincere and direct. He was caring and sensitive and calm. He called these 2 people to let them know the truth concerning my current health situation. He told them I am in a great deal of pain to the point I am using a cane to help me walk. He told them I have lost almost 40 lbs. and my appetite is not always the best. He told them the results of the latest scan.

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He told them what is to come with regards to my future treatment and the slim possibility of positive results. He told them more than likely we would not make it to Texas for Thanksgiving. He told them he felt it important that they (my family) consider making plans to visit me here in Florida.
In today’s post, I write the following –
You remember last month on Father’s Day weekend, I received a surprise visit from my 3 sons? My heart was happy and the time spent together that weekend is priceless. It was by far the best Father’s Day I have ever had.
I just recently had more visitors that left yesterday after a weeklong visit. My dad and stepmom drove from Texas to come visit me. The time spent with my dad was special and I feel a closeness to him I have never felt before. We chatted about our relationship and the mistakes we made along the way, and the love we have for each other. We talked about my current health situation and we cried together and he provided me support only a dad can.
The weeklong visit was fun, special and very emotional and one I will never forget. My dad has Parkinson’s that has progressed in recent years; he is lovingly taken care of by my stepmom. She is an amazing lady, who I have great respect for. I know my dad is in good hands with her, just like I am in good hands with Gary.
Thank you dad, for taking the time to visit me.
I love you,
Terry
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Thank you Tink! Happy Friday! 🙂
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I am so glad you have been having these wonderful visits. I love the poignant photo of you and your dad with matching walkers but it makes me sad. Love K xx
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I never imagined I would be in this condition at a young age and using a walker just like my dad. I will have many important posts coming in the upcoming weeks – one explaining why I am having to use the walker. Happy Day! 🙂
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You too, sweetie.
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Thank you Marci. 🙂
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I am so glad you have the support of your family! Wonderful photo of you with your dad. Have a peaceful weekend!
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My family is amazing, I am fortunate. Thanks Dolly, and a peaceful weekend to you as well. 🙂
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It must make you feel a lot better just knowing that you have such a wonderful family to stand by you, in addition to Gary who is wonderful in his own right.
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Yes, it does! 🙂
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Oh terry. My heart is so full. Sending gentle tight hugs. Xoxo
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Thank you Jodi, I appreciate the hugs and you! Happy Weekend. 🙂
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I am happy you have family support. Do have a restful weekend. Sending a prayer up for you.
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Yes, their support is very important to me during this time. I will have a restful weekend and thank you for the prayer. Happy Weekend Bisi. 🙂
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That is so beautiful Terry. I’m so happy for you that you are finding some emotional peace. Happy weekend! 🙂
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Me too Paula, the time spent with my dad was important for both of us. We both enjoyed visiting and spending time together. 🙂
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Oh, this is so beautiful, and I am so happy that you got to spend a week with your dad. These are special times for both you and your dad. You are blessed to have such a wonderful family. Hope you have a relaxed weekend my friend. 🙂 x
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Yes, this past week was certainly special indeed – we both enjoyed our time together. Nothing planned this weekend except to relax, hope you do as well Lynne. 🙂
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Thank you 🙂
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What a lovely, moving photo. I’m glad your dad was able to make the journey, it must have been quite difficult for him.
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It was a long journey for him because they drove – takes 2 long days. My stepmom does the driving and really takes excellent care of my dad. Thanks Chris, have a great weekend. 🙂
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❤️ I am so glad to read this Terry. Wishing you a peaceful and pain-lite weekend.
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Glad you enjoyed this post and thank you Su – have a wonderful weekend. 🙂
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You too my friend.
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Such a fabulous photo of you and your Dad.
So very precious.
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Yes, I agree! Thanks dear, I always appreciate your comments and hope you have a great weekend. 🙂
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Thank you too.
Hope your weekend is a good one.
🔆 x 🔆
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What a beautiful photo. Nice to be able to speak more honestly with parents as we get older and for them to be more honest with us. Wonderful that you could have these visits with your sons, dad and stepmom. Sometimes it’s easy to forget that as we evolve, others are evolving too–our parents included. Whatever mistakes were made are in the past — why carry them forward. In the photo, you are a father and son who are in the present, no matter how difficult the present is. As Kerry said, a very poignant photo.
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Gillian, my dad and I had some very honest conversations when he was here. As you indicated we both have evolve and we have put those mistakes away and started anew. We both are short on time, we are now both in a better place with regards to our relationship. Thank you for your touching comment and I appreciate you stopping by today to read and comment. Have a great weekend. 🙂
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Father’s Day spent with your three sons and then a visit from your father! Makes my heart smile. Hope your weekend is peaceful.
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These last several weeks have been amazing with regards to fathers and sons. How fortunate am I? My heart smiles as well. Thanks Paula I wish you a peaceful weekend as well. 🙂
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I feel truly blessed you are sharing this journey and these beautiful moments with me and all of us. Thinking of you always.
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I am honored to have an outlet that allows me to express the events of my journey. I appreciate you and others taking the time to read and comment – have a great weekend. 🙂
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That’s a fantastic photo of you and your dad. So happy you could spend loving time together and were able say some of the things people often forget to say when they have the chance. Sending hugs and virtual spoons.
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Thank you Peggy, and yes the time we spent together was very important to both of us. Thanks as always for the hugs and virtual spoons. Have a Happy Weekend. 🙂
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What a beautiful picture of you and your Dad. You have so many people you care about you and love you and of course your WordPress friends too. K. D.
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I am fortunate of the support I have with family, friends and of course my WP friends, who provide a great deal of hope, thoughts and prayers for me. Thank you K.D. for being one of the latter and for the comment. Hope you have a happy weekend my friend. 🙂
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I hope you weekend is full of friends and family, my dear friend. K. D. 🙂
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This post brought tears to my eyes. I’m really glad you have a loving family who will always be there for you. Hugs to you.
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Thank you very much for your touching comment, it has great meaning for me. I appreciate you stopping by to read and comment and I am wishing you a wonderful weekend. Hugs to you as well. 🙂
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So poignant, Terry
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Thank you Derrick – have a great weekend. 🙂
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Thank you Eugenia – Happy Weekend! 🙂
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Thank you Jennie. 🙂
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What a wonderful photo of you and your dad! You both look great together, it is so touching. Your life has certainly been blessed as of late. xoxoxo
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Thank you very much Kathryn. My dad and I had a great visit and we certainly enjoyed our time together. I never imagined we both would be using a walker at the same time – we do look great together. Thanks for stopping by today, I appreciate you very much. 🙂
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I’m so glad you spend such a lovely time together with your Dad, Terry! Have a happy day my friend! 😄😘
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Me too Sarah, our time together was priceless. 🙂
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That´s so lovely to hear 🙂
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I’m so happy to hear that your dad and stepmom drove to visit you. That’s a blessing. I love the photo of you two.
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Thank you Tikeetha for stopping by to read and comment. Happy Day! 🙂
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