I am in year 3 of my blog.
In the early days of this blog, there are posts that received little exposer.
I have a new category ‘Reruns – A Fresh Perspective’. This category reposts these earlier posts that received little exposer and a fresh perspective on how I feel about them today.
This post was originally posted on May 18, 2015 –
From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia –
A life partner is a romantic or otherwise very close friend for life. The partners can be of the same or opposite sexes, married or unmarried, and celibate, monogamous or polyamorous.
From Me, the free blog –
My life partner and I are romantic, are very close friends for life, we are of the same sex, unmarried and monogamous.
My life partner is more than the Wikipedia definition; my definition of my life partner encompasses additional qualities and traits. These qualities and traits are included in the definitions for Lifeguard, Life Coach, Life Line and Life Saver.
My life partner as a Lifeguard will rescue me when I get into difficulty in a swimming pool. Not just an actual swimming pool, but all other metaphors for swimming pool. The swimming pool of life in comparison is more like an ocean. This ocean at time seems endless with no land near and the boat we are on at times experiences turbulence in the water. I know when the turbulence gets rough; my Lifeguard will be there to rescue me.
My life partner as a Life Coach councils and encourages me when I experience personal challenges. This Life Coach will motivate me to fight the challenges and achieve my goals. This Life Coach will advise me during times of decision making, and reminds me of my strengths and encourages me to overcome my weaknesses.
My life partner as a Life Line will preserve my life by keeping in contact during times of need. This Life Line is never too far to throw me a rope when I need to be brought back closer. This Life Line watches me close as I roam into uncharted territory and never leaves me alone in harm’s way.
My life partner as a Life Saver (the candy) is sweet, fruity and fun. This Life Saver’s sweetness is never ending, always pleasurable in personality. This Life Saver is fruity, mellow and cheerful. This Life Saver is fun and enjoyable to have around. This Life Saver can be lighthearted, be amusing and be entertaining.
So, my hopes are for people who have a life partner in their life, they have more than just the Wikipedia definition of a life partner. My hope is your life partner rescues you, advices you, encourages and motivates you – My hope is your life partner brings pleasure and fun in your life. My Life Partner Does!
A Fresh Perspective –
When I wrote that post over 2 years ago, Gary was my life partner and today he is my husband. I have written many posts about the importance of him in my life, especially now. He continues to be my Lifeguard, my Life Coach, My Life Line and certainly my Life Saver (the candy). He is all that and more, how fortunate I am to have this special person in my life.
Your life partner is or was my life partner as well until I lost him to a stroke. It is true what you say and how you describe your life partner Terry. Not many people can boast that they have a life partner how you describe. I was lucky to have had my partner for 23 years. I can relate to this post really well. Still sending you peace and comfort ❤
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I am glad you can relate to this post, but am sorry about the loss of your partner to a stroke. 23 years is an amazing time to have him in your life and you have the memories there with you. I appreciate you stopping by today to read and leaving an honest heartfelt comment.
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You’re welcome Terry 🙂
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Looking back at your beautiful words written two years ago, how true they ring today and how lucky you are to have Gary holding your hand!
Have a peaceful day,
D
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Yes, I am very fortunate Gary is in my life today, he is amazing. A peaceful day to you as well Dolly. 🙂
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Even though you might not feel this way at the moment, you are both very fortunate to be in each other’s lives. 🙂
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This is really beautiful, and so special. You have a man in a million, and you are so blessed to have each other. I love the way you feel Terry. Gary is your everything, and nothing will ever break that bond.
I hope you have some relief today my friend. Thinking of you. 🙂 x
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Thanks Lynne for your special comment. Certainly Gary and I are soulmates, I have always felt that way. I am feeling a bit tired today, but besides that, all is well. Happy day to you! 🙂
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What a wonderful tribute to Gary – the words you said in your earlier post have certainly been tested and proved during these trying times for you. Thoughts and prayers, as always.
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Yes, I agree Sarah, especially now more than ever. I hope your week has been wonderful and as usual, I appreciate you stopping by to read and comment. 🙂
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It has been a great week – and I hope the same for you, with a pain-free (or lessened pain) great weekend to follow!
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Love to Gary, your perfect soul-mate! Love both the pics. The one of you two holding hands is precious. 😊
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Thank you Alexis, the first picture of Gary, he does not like, but it is one of my favorites. We are soul-mates, and are meant to be together. Happy Thursday my friend. 🙂
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Will you share? LOL Sending hugs to both of you.
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LOL, I should clone him. Thanks for the hugs, from both of us. 🙂
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Thank you Tink, as always you brighten my day! 🙂
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This is lovely. I always remember you teasing us about your pet name for Gary – Gary Berry! 🍓
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Thank you Kerry, yep – Gary Berry, is one special guy!
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I am so glad you have him! You are both very blessed! Love and enjoy your journey together! ❤
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Thank you Jodi, we are blessed indeed – I am grateful for him. 🙂
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Very special post. What a difference mutual commitment, and unconditional love makes to deepen affection into love. I am blessed also with my Susan, who has been there for me through trials that would have split up many couples. I think it awesome and important that you express real appreciation and incidentally you inspire me in that regard to do the same. hugs, and appreciation for the light you share.
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Thank you David for your comment and sharing mutual feelings we both hold. Also, thank you for the compliment – for me to inspire anyone, I am honored. I appreciate you as well my friend and hope your week has been good to you. 🙂
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Ohhh, what a beautiful post! I’m glad you brought this gem forward. You and Gary were meant to be and you’re so blessed to have each other. A lot of people aren’t that fortunate. Hugs to you both!
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Paula, I felt it important to bring this original post back for more exposer. Gary is very important to me and yes, we are fortunate to have each other. Thanks for the hugs. 🙂
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You are a lucky one. So many people never find a life partner. Great post.
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Thank you Jennie for you kind comment. 🙂
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You are welcome, Terry!
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Gary is a lucky man to have you in his life as you are lucky to have him in your life….nothing like have the love of your life to stand beside you, behind you when you need a nudge and walk in front of you when the going gets rough…..its true….its not often we find that one special person….I feel I have also found my “Gary”, however hes a Peter….LOL nothing but love and happiness to you both….xxxx
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You and Peter are very fortunate! Thanks kat, hope all is going well with you and you are staying cool. 🙂
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we are staying cool….its crazy how hot it gets…..XX
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I can only imagine – we have been in the upper 90s, with a passing thunderstorm every day. 🙂
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the thunderstorms never make it to us…there is a small bank of hills/mountians just east of us and it heads them north up the desert
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Love this post and love the photo of Gary.
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Thank you Gillian, I appreciate you stopping by today to read and comment. 🙂
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Love your description of a life partner. So glad you and Gary are life partners for one another. Truly a blessing.
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Thank you Peggy, yes I agree, it is a blessing. 🙂
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Gary is your one true love and you are his – how delightful to re-read this wonderful testimony to what he means to you and how you feel about him. All of those who stand on the side-lines calling you on have reason to be glad and grateful to Gary so I am going to lead the cheer for him (as chief cheerleader of Team Terry, you understand this is my job) but I won’t whirl pompoms or do the splits … far too distracting. All Hail Gary!!!
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Osyth, you are so very funny and you make me laugh and bring a smile to my face. I am fortunate to have my true love in my life, especially now when I need him the most. All Hail Gary!! Happy Day my dear friend, and have a great weekend. 🙂
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It is the greatest of gifts …. I was 51 when I met my husband and he was 59 … we both agree that it was worth every mistake, every heartache and break and that we would do it all again if we could be guaranteed that we would end up together 🙂 I’ll be thinking of you double time this weekend as you mom and sister arrive to be with you
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Thank you Osyth. 🙂
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So pleased you have
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Thank you Derrick. Happy Weekend. 🙂
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Beautiful, Terry. A life partner makes life more meaningful You and Gary are lucky to have found each other.
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Thank you Eugenia, I appreciate your kind comment. Have a great weekend. 🙂
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Such a beautiful way to describe your feelings for Gary! I’m so happy that you’ve found each other! 😄
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Sarah, we are very fortunate to have found each other. We are happy with ourselves and our lives and with each other – life is good. 🙂
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Indeed you both are, Terry. And very well deserved too 🙂 Happy Sunday! 🙂 ❤
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How fortunate you and Gary are to have each other! Thank you for the repost, it is wonderful!
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We are fortunate, thank you Kathryn. Have a great day! 🙂
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I like your definition much better. Stay strong, fight back with nourishing foods. Hugs again and to you both!
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Thank you Sharon for the kind comment. I appreciate you stopping by to read and comment. Have a happy weekend. 🙂
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This post is truly beautiful Terry. Give my best to Gary and how wonderful it is that you have each other. Many hugs to both x
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Thank you Roberta, I appreciate your comment. 🙂
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What a heartfelt post about your husband! I’m fortunate to be married to a great and loving man, the father of my sons and husband of 22 years. Blessings to you and Gary. I’m so happy that I found your blog.❤
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Thank you for your kind comment. I hope all is well with you and appreciate you taking the time to read my post. Happy Thursday! 🙂
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I enjoyed your post. I’m thinking of you as you go through this. 😎❤
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